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THE TOP SEX COACHES
A sex coach is someone who helps clients to have better communication, counseling, and education on sex. A sex coach is a professional who helps people in improving their sex lives. Sex coaching also helps people learn about their own sexuality so that they can figure out what turns them on and what doesn’t.
Each sex coaches, each with their remarkable style trying to help the clients about sex and gender roles, and asked them what’s extraordinary about their coaching and what has endorsed their massive success.
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In Brief : The Top Sex Coaches
- Lisa Welsh – As an Accredited Sex Educator and the innovative mind behind “Design Your Desire,” Lisa Welsh is on a mission to revolutionize the way busy working parents experience and embrace intimacy.
- Todd Creager – As a distinguished relationship and sex therapist, Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT, specializes in helping couples rekindle passion and individuals discover their healthy sexual selves.
- Michelle Martinez – Michelle Martinez, MPH, is a distinguished Sacred Sex & Intimacy Coach, renowned for her expertise in helping heterosexual couples cultivate profound sexual chemistry and connection.
- Paul Field – Paul Field, a distinguished Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Clean Language coach, is on a mission to guide women through a transformative journey of reconnecting with their bodies.
- Yael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez – Yael’s coaching philosophy places a strong emphasis on identity and social positioning work. By addressing the intersections of identity, she helps clients navigate the complex landscape of personal and social influences.
- Melanie Knight – Melanie Knight stands as a seasoned and heart-led coach, boasting over 15 years of dedicated experience in the profound transformation of people’s lives. Throughout her extensive journey.
- Minas Pamboris – Minas Pamboris is a Psychotherapist from Cyprus. He studied Psychology and Counseling Psychology in the United Kingdom and he has received training in Systemic Psychotherapy.
- Sarah Rose Bright – Empowering women and couples to embrace and celebrate their sexuality, Sarah Rose Bright is a leading Sex & Intimacy Coach. As the founder of The Sexy Life Podcast and the visionary behind Intimate Sexuality.
- Kian De La Cour – Renowned for his groundbreaking work in sex coaching, Kian is a visionary leader in the field. Alongside Katie Sarra, he co-founded the Sea School of Embodiment, offering cutting-edge international trainings in somatic sexology for both the public and sexuality professionals.
- Sarah Martin – Sarah Martin is more than a Certified Sex Coach; she’s a trailblazer on a mission to transform lives through pleasure. With her guidance, clients around the globe discover the power of ethical intimacy.
- Dr. Martha Tara Lee – Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a proud Singaporean Chinese, stands as a beacon of wisdom in the realm of relationships and sexuality. As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist at Eros Coaching.
- Anka Grzywacz – Anka Grzywacz stands at the forefront of sexual empowerment as a renowned sexologist and Certified Sex Coach based in Switzerland. Her passion for destigmatizing sexuality and promoting healthy relationships is evident in her diverse range of endeavors.
- Amy Levine – Amy Levine, a distinguished sex coach and certified sexuality educator, stands as a beacon of empowerment in the realm of intimacy. As the Founder of Ignite Your Pleasure.
- Jade Levinson – Nestled in the heart of Boulder, Colorado, Jade Levinson stands as a beacon of transformation in the realm of intimacy. As an Integrated Sex & Relationship Coach.
- Julia Satterlee – Meet Julia Satterlee, affectionately known as the Sexistential Coach. With over two decades of experience as a sex educator, Julia brings a unique blend of wisdom, compassion, and expertise to her practice.
- Gigi Engle – Meet Gigi Engle, an acclaimed feminist author, certified sex educator, and advocate for pleasure-based sex education. With a wealth of expertise and a passion for empowerment, Gigi is dedicated to promoting sexual health, wellness, and fulfillment for all.
- Pauline Ryeland – Meet Pauline Ryeland, the Intimacy Whisperer® and a seasoned Intimacy, Sex, Libido & Relationship Coach & Educator. With a nurturing and compassionate approach, Pauline supports individuals and couples in navigating the intricate terrain of intimacy, sex, and relationships.
- Serena Haines – Meet Serena Haines, a dedicated Somatic Sex Educator and Pleasure and Intimacy Coach based in Halifax. With a passion for supporting individuals in their journey towards sexual empowerment and fulfillment, Serena brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to her practice.
- Tilly Storm – Meet Tilly Storm, a passionate Holistic Sex and Intimacy Coach and the creative force behind The Multiorgasmic Mama Podcast, captivating audiences since 2017 with her empowering message of sexual liberation and self-discovery.
- Paul – Meet Paul Field, a compassionate Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Clean Language coach, and Somatic Trauma Therapy practitioner based in London, UK. With a deep commitment to supporting women on their journey.
- Erica Lemke – Introducing Erica Lemke, a multifaceted professional on a mission to empower individuals in their journey towards sexual fulfillment and satisfaction. As an author, sex coach, and future clinical sexologist.
- Dr. Stacy Friedman – Meet Dr. Stacy, a dedicated professional driven by a profound passion for fostering deeper connections and enhancing intimate experiences. With a background in Clinical Sexology, Dr. Stacy embarked on her journey with a clear mission: to empower individuals and couples to cultivate fulfilling and enriching sexual intimacy.
- Sam McAllery – Meet our dedicated coach, whose journey from delving into HIV biology research to contributing to a biotech start-up has instilled a profound appreciation for the intersection of science and human sexuality.
- Adeline – Adeline brings a wealth of expertise and compassion to her work as a dedicated sexologist, guiding clients on a journey of self-discovery and emotional awareness.
- Michele Lyons – Michele is dedicated to empowering individuals to embrace their sexuality and express themselves fully through the transformative power of expressive arts. With a unique blend of expertise in both expressive arts and sex coaching.
- Patti Britton – With over four decades of experience as a clinical sexologist, Patti is a pioneer in the field of sex coaching. Since founding the profession in 1993, it has been her life’s passion to empower individuals to navigate their unique pathways to sexual fulfillment, healing, and self-discovery.
- Marie Wagner – Certified in Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching, Marie brings over a decade of experience in somatic and energetic bodywork to her practice. With 10,000 hours of expertise as a Tantrika, massage therapist, and BodyTalk practitioner, she offers a holistic approach to guiding her clients toward deeper intimacy and connection.
- Darshana Avila – Embark on a transformative journey toward intimacy and wholeness with Erotic Wholeness. Offering a trauma-informed, nature-based, and justice-oriented approach, Erotic Wholeness invites you to explore the depths of your sexuality, intimacy, and relationships in a safe and supportive environment.
- Ashley Randall – Navigate the complexities of sexuality and relationships with confidence and authenticity. Performance anxiety, identity struggles, and societal pressures can hinder your ability to experience pleasure and connection.
- Ellen Melon – Break free from shame and perfectionism to embrace your true desires and worth. As a Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach and Un-Educator, Ellen is dedicated to helping women navigate the complexities of shame and perfectionism to cultivate self-compassion and make courageous decisions.
Lisa Welsh
Lisa Welsh is an Accredited Sex Educator and creator of “Design Your Desire,” a transformative programme under her brand, “In Bed With Lisa.” Serving as the Communications Lead for My Sexual Health, she also supports the Communication Committee of the World Association for Sexual Health and is a Marketing Associate for Sex Coach U. Specialising in helping busy working parents achieve fulfilling intimacy, Lisa utilises many platforms—including radio, podcasts, and YouTube—to empower individuals to embrace their sexual selves.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
My approach stands out in the field of sex education because of the unique focus on busy working parents struggling to design their ultimate love life. I offer a blend of evidence-based practical solutions tailored to the challenges these individuals face daily. My curriculum involves a holistic mix of practical resources and customised home-play designed for high impact with minimal time commitment.
Leveraging both my professional influences and my personal experiences as a twice-married mum facing similar challenges, I offer a unique, relatable perspective. I’ve been guiding people toward fulfilling, authentic sexual experiences since 2012.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The most critical factors contributing to my success as a sex educator have been the mentorship from Dr Elna Rudolph, President of the World Association for Sexual Health, and my personal experiences navigating intimacy challenges as a divorcee.
Dr Rudolph’s guidance has provided me with invaluable, evidence-based insights, while my own journey has made me empathetic to the real-life challenges people face. Seeing how full sexual expression can not only rejuvenate individual lives but also build confidence that transcends the bedroom has been deeply affirming. These elements together have helped me create a unique programme that is both academically rigorous and deeply empathetic.
Todd Creager
Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT is a relationship and sex therapist who helps couples rekindle passion and helps individuals discover their healthy sexual selves. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, “The Long, Hot Marriage”, as well as the bestseller- “Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 Ways to Ignite Your Love Life.” He has trained many physicians and psychotherapists in how to assess and treat low sexual desire.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
My training in couples therapy, trauma work and human sexuality has given me the opportunity to work deeply with clients. I help them discover and break through their blocks to their healthy sexuality, accept their own unique sexual selves and become more present for their intimate partner. As I facilitate my clients recognizing conditioned taboos and sexual shame, they can discover and communicate what they truly want as they increase their capacity to give and receive love and pleasure. I also use EMDR which is a powerful trauma treatment to help people overcome effects of sexual trauma.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
There probably are several critical things that have contributed to my success in the field of sexuality. One is my early training through an intensive program in Human Sexuality through the UCLA School of Medicine. The second is my training in trauma work which I got into for the purpose of helping adults having sexual effects from being molested as children. Lastly has been my training as well as teaching in couples’ communication. Above all, I have a passion to help individuals and couples discover and rediscover their passion.
Michelle Martinez
Michelle Martinez, MPH is a Sacred Sex & Intimacy Coach specializing in helping heterosexual couples cultivate profound sexual chemistry and connection through the art of slow sex and individual embodiment practices. With sexual-spiritual embodiment practices at the center of her work, she launched the BodyWise Coaching app in May 2022 to help people establish a daily sacred sexuality practice of their own with pleasure and ease.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
My coaching methodology combines the tools and processes I’ve found most effective from 8 years of researching mindfulness-based therapies, studying and applying the Tiny Habits behavior-change process to establish my own embodiment practices, and certified training in the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA) coaching at the Tantric Institute for Integrated Sexuality. I believe that ancestral and ongoing sexual wounds, insecurities, and trauma are a public health issue, a root cause of the suffering and disconnection we experience as humans today. Deep, connected, full-of-love sex has the power to heal these sexual-spiritual wounds and support the spiritual evolution and enlightenment of humanity. So that’s what I’m here to serve.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that drives my success as a coach is the personal embodiment of the principles I teach. It is incredibly challenging in our increasingly “mental” world to get out of our heads — to stop trying to think our way out of a problem — and drop back into our bodies, into the present moment, and be with our sensual experience for prolonged periods of time. But that’s what I keep learning to do with more and more consistency. Being able to embody self-compassion, self-acceptance, openness to pleasure, openness to receiving, openness to abundance — that’s what really moves the needle for me. Potential clients can feel the difference in my energy when I’m communicating from an intellectual perspective vs. an embodied one, and I am so much more magnetic and powerful when I am embodied in my own pleasure, joy, and aliveness.
Paul Field
Paul Field is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Certified Clean Language coach and trainer and has trained in Somatic Trauma Therapy. Paul is based in London, UK and helps women reconnect to their bodies, love and sexuality, particularly after difficult relationships or sexual and emotional trauma.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I see what’s uniquely wonderful about people: what they can become, free from trauma, or what families or society have imposed on them. I help women discover the freedom and beauty of their authentic selves. I work with sexuality because that’s where shame, constraints and wounds show up most intensely.
I believe deeply in my clients; it helps them believe too. That they can have desires, experience pleasure, set boundaries, experience love, and trust their own wisdom. When clients realise their unique power and start attracting better relationships and better lives, it’s the most magical thing.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
I’ve put in years of self-development work myself, so I understand how challenging change can be. I have a Tantric spiritual practice that has taught me to be living in the moment; loving, accepting, calm and kind whatever comes up. I also have a beautiful, transformational relationship where my partner and I constantly face our challenges; striving and learning how to make our lives full of love and joy. I draw on all these, but the most important factor in my success is trusting in the wisdom of my clients and their ability to create their own change.
Yael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez
Yael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez, author of An Introguide to a Sex Positive You, is a pleasure activist who centers identity and social positioning work, values self-exploration, and promotes intentional practice as a vehicle for desired shifts. Through her company Sex Positive You, Yael supports clients in finding pleasurable, joyful, and positive experiences with self and sex.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I guide clients to identify and rewrite beliefs that are standing in the way of their intimate, sexual, or relational goals. Through my signature process, You are Enough, Love, we interrogate core beliefs they take for granted as true, and ground in other possibilities and counter evidence while honoring their lived experiences and the role of social and cultural identities. This narrative work is paired with embodied pleasure techniques, communication skill development, self-worth exercises, belonging exercises, intimacy practices, life-balance explorations, and more depending upon the clients’ goals and journey.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The incredible educational opportunities related to anti-racism, disability, and fat liberation work, social justice organizing, and identity formation through an intersectionality lens in conjunction with my personal life experiences as a queer, polyam, neurodivergent white Jewish Latina have contributed significantly to my success as a coach. My practices and style are grounded in the wisdom of various types of practitioners which allows me to hold space for people in ways that support their unique experiences, identities, and needs while also knowing when to recommend others in the field when a better fit is possible.
Melanie Knight
Melanie Knight is a heart led coach with over 15 years’ of experience in transforming people’s lives. She has extensive training with Landmark’s transformational and personal development programmes and she delivered seminars at Landmark. After a personal journey into Tantra, Spirituality and Sexuality she has now specialises in coaching people around their sexuality. She is also a clean language coach bringing a new depth to her abilities to support others.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I support people to fully explore sexuality, using a combination of coaching, Tantra, Sexological and Somatic Bodywork practices. Bringing the mind body connection together to create a whole. Embodied Clean Language questions support the client to explore their own world. Supporting the client to notice what is happening in their body, noticing any shame or judgement, noticing what consent feels like, noticing what sensations and pleasure feels like. Coaching supports the healing and integration of parts of ourselves that maybe blocked from really having the sexual life we really want.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that has contributed to my success as a coach is being a constant learner myself. I have a Tantric lover who is also a coach, our relationship and lovemaking is a transformational playground to support each other. It’s a journey of constantly opening our hearts and challenging ourselves to remove any blocks, so as to be the highest expression of ourselves in our relationship and to be an inspiration to others. I also participate in weekly Tantric and Clean Language classes in which I also part of the teaching team.
Minas Pamboris
Minas Pamboris is a Psychotherapist from Cyprus. He studied Psychology and Counseling Psychology in the United Kingdom and he has received training in Systemic Psychotherapy, Couple Counseling and Sex Coaching. He is a member of the Pancyprian Association for Psychotherapists and a certified member of the World Association of Sex Coaches.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
As a strong supporter of equality and equity, I promote Human and Sexual Rights to their maximum. My aim is to provide a safe, confidential, secure and non-judgmental environment free of discrimination of any kind. Through coaching I encourage people to stray from their familiar way of thinking and behaving, and free themselves from their roles, their given labels, any stigmas and expectations.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
My journey in the field of therapy began by learning the Rogerian approach and continued by learning the Systemic approach in therapy, which did not only add a new tool during therapeutic sessions, but also changed my own personal way of thinking and behaving. Sex coaching and sexology enabled me to enhance my knowledge in various aspects regarding human sexual behaviour and sexual expression.
Even though my life has transformed on every level I am also very real in my The models I use in sex coaching include the PLISSIT and the MEBES model, taught by Dr. Patti Britton. The messages which we are brought up with, might today play a crucial role in our understanding of our bodies and our sexuality. Through coaching, one is given the permission to dive in and freely express his/her sexuality in terms of thoughts, sensations, feelings, energies and behaviours.
Sarah Rose Bright
Sarah Rose Bright is a Sex & Intimacy Coach, founder of The Sexy Life Podcast and the creator of Intimate Sexuality. Sarah is on a mission to help women and couples to love and celebrate their sexuality, create happy and healthy intimate relationships and find their pleasure, playfulness and passion for life.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
With nearly 20 years of extensive training and personal exploration and over a decade of working with 100s of students and clients, Sarah has developed Intimate Sexuality, a unique system of coaching and practical sex and intimacy education that supports women and couples to awaken and transform their sex lives and intimate relationships. The practical element is fundamental as this allows clients to unlearn habits and patterns that limit their experience of themselves and partners and discover new ways that support deep and fulfilling pleasure and intimacy. This can be as simple as learning how to truly breathe or how to touch without an agenda.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing is my life experience. I got into this work as I was scared of sex, in unhealthy relationships and I didn’t like myself or my body. Today I am a very different person and can speak from experience of knowing what it’s like to struggle with sex, to not love yourself, and to be in unfulfilling relationships.
Even though my life has transformed on every level I am also very real in my humanness. My 20 years of study, exploration and coaching mean that I bring a breadth and depth of understanding and compassion for my clients, something they regularly feed back to me.
Kian De la Cour
Kian is a pioneering leader in sex coaching. He is the co-founder with Katie Sarra of the Sea School of Embodiment which presents leading-edge international trainings in somatic sexology for the public, as well as for sexuality professionals.
He is co-director of the Somatic Sex Education professional training, UK, Ireland & Portugal, Chair of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS), Chair of Judges at the Sexual Freedom Awards and on the board of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB).
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
Kian combines interpersonal neurobiology and somatic psychology to focus on eliciting body-based wisdom over more cognitive approaches. His approach prioritizes client choice over any particular activity. This simple yet profound approach can illuminate the individual’s unique metaphorical landscape and result in powerful self-directed shifts.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that has contributed to my success as a coach is the Wheel of Consent®, a unique model which can deeply restore individual agency and also allow the facilitation of profound insight with a light touch, without having to be overly interpretative or directive.
Sarah Martin
Sarah Martin is changing the world with pleasure. She is a Certified Sex Coach who helps people get laid ethically. She has worked with hundreds of clients all over the world through workshops, courses, and 1:1 coaching. Sarah has been a featured guest expert on radio, podcasts, summits, and media, such as BBC World News, Men’s Health, The Guardian, The Irish Times, El Pais, Cosmopolitan, and Sex Matters Magazine.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I take my clients from curious but clueless to calm and confident in dating, sex, and relationships using the proprietary 9-point Dignified Hedonist framework. Dignified Hedonism is the key to a life of ethical pleasure. Dignified Hedonism is desire-led, sex-forward, and pleasure-focused. I help my clients build the skills needed to become uncommonly excellent lovers and to feel empowered and sexually autonomous. What’s more, through their personal transformation, my clients go on to change the world. Through the skills they have learned, they inadvertently fight fascism with the power of pleasure.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that has contributed to my success as a cThe single most important thing that has contributed to my success as a coach has been a relentless focus on getting results for my clients. As I have developed the tools and framework that serve as the foundation for my approach, I am always innovating – testing, iterating, and collecting feedback. When my clients experience extraordinary results, the impact of this work is multiplied – not only their lives are affected, but so are the lives of their friends and lovers.
Dr. Martha Tara Lee
A born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She has a doctorate in human sexuality, masters in counselling and two other degrees. In practice since 2009, Dr. Lee was recognized as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of four books.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I focus on the whole spectrum of sexuality and relationship challenges that individuals and couples experience – from unconsummated marriage, low sex drive, sexual desire discrepancy, early ejaculation, erectile difficulties, painful sex and the communication around it. I use a combination of counseling, coaching, sex therapy, mindfulness, and spiritual techniques.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
Since I often find myself working with individuals and couples in crisis, I take pride in using my whole being to support clients – from listening deeply to understand what is going on; to using a combination of verbal and visual gestures and cues to speed up mutual understanding, so as to support clients to attain the results they want in the shortest amount of time.
Anka Grzywacz
Anka Grzywacz is a sexologist and Certified Sex Coach based in Switzerland. In 2019 she delivered a TEDx talk “Good Enough Sex”. Back in her home country, Poland, Anka hosted a live show “Good Sex” in the popular Radio TOK FM.
As an activist for sexual and reproductive rights, Anka spoke at conferences at the European Parliament and the United Nations. In her online practice she helps clients nurture desire in long-term relationships.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I help my clients understand their sexuality from a broader perspective. My superpower is bringing the atmosphere of normality and ease around difficult and taboo topics. I empower people to take charge of their sexuality. I don’t focus on sexual dysfunctions but rather guide coachees to find more pleasure and fun in intimacy. In my philosophy bedroom is a playground for adults. There’s room to experiment, laugh and make mistakes.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
My signature programs “Back to Good Sex” and “Here I Come!” deliver long-term results. I do this by focusing not just on the technical side of sex, but also changing the clients’ thinking and beliefs.
My clients trust me because I practice what I preach. I work with women and couples in long-term relationships, often parents of young children. Everything I teach in my programs I have tried and tested in my own marriage.
Amy Levine
Amy Levine is a renowned sex coach, certified sexuality educator and Founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. Fun, candid and conversational in her tone, Amy works with singles and couples across the globe to solve their most intimate sexual dilemmas. Ultimately, getting her clients out of sex ruts and inspiring them be sexually empowered in and out of bed. Her popular online sex soirées are said to be an epic coaching experience!
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I create a space that grants permission to discuss a topic that’s often dealt with through trial and error, rather than real education. We set goals that are powered by intimacy, emotion and pleasure. I hold my clients accountable to themselves, meet them when they are at and then move them forward. My coaching isn’t only about having sex, it’s about laying a foundation for intimacy in my clients’ lives.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
I only work with singles and couples who are ready, willing and committed to make a shift in their lives. It’s important that we feel like we’re a great fit to have next level success. With this approach for the last 20+ years, I’ve helped countless singles and couples get the intimacy and pleasure they deserve. It’s led to national media appearances on NBC and Bravo, as well as numerous media quotes including my favorite magazines and websites I used to dream would value the mark I make in this world. Now it’s reality, bringing my messages of sexual confidence and empowerment to those who dare to uplevel.
Jade Levinson
Jade Levinson is an Integrated Sex & Relationship Coach based in Boulder, CO. She works with Individuals and Couples one on one using her collected toolkit of Tantra, Somatic experiencing, Non-Violent Communication, Crisis management, Breathwork, Meditation, Yoga, and more. She has also taught workshops at retreats and wellness festivals globally.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
Throughout a typical container of ten 90-min to 2 hour sessions I support my clients in getting comfortable saying what they actually mean, getting honest about their integrity with themselves, taking responsibility for their emotional experience, returning to loving all of themselves, reclaiming their body, and remembering their inherent worth.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that has contributed to my success as a coach is my undying thirst for information. I am constantly geeking out on topics that contribute to the work I do.
Julia Satterlee
Julia Satterlee is the Sexistential Coach. A sex educator since 2000, she’s a Sexologist certified by the American College of Sexologists, a Certified Sex Coach, and member of the World Association of Sex Coaches. She sees individuals and couples in her private practice, and also serves as a Student Advisor at Sex Coach U.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
My focus is on sexuality, but it’s big picture, because our sexual selves are a core part of our essence. Authentic, consensual sexual expression is crucial to a joyful existence. I accompany you on your path to more confidence for the bedroom and beyond, as you become more of who you truly are.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
For me, the most important thing has been taking my own medicine; I walk the walk instead of just talking the talk. If your coaching practice centers around being nonjudgmental, compassionate, passionate, and authentic, then you have to really embody those things yourself first. You have to put in your own work. People can sense the difference, so it’s been essential to be the example, for myself and others.
Gigi Engle
Gigi Engle, ACS, CSE, CSC, is an award-winning feminist author, certified sex educator, and psychotherapist in training. As a sex expert with Lifestyle Condoms, she promotes and teaches about pleasure-based sex education, masturbation, and safer sex practices. Gigi’s work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour and Women’s Health. Her articles have been shared over 150 million times.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
My coaching style is very relaxed, integrative, and person-centered – based in person-centered theory. This is a collaborative process wherein you get to direct your sessions toward growth. Wherever you want to go, and whatever you want to focus on, that’s where we’ll head.
I use a variety of techniques such as reading and homework assignments to help with progress. These are voluntary, but since these are person-centered sessions, skipping them will only hamper your progress. I ask all clients to keep a journal (either tangible or online) of their feelings about the sessions, anything they want to talk about the following week, or any personal feelings that come up.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The biggest contributor to my success has been the huge publications I write for. As a sexual health journalist and expert, I’m able to demystify, educate, and empower people to find their true, authentic sexual selves. We all deserve to pursue pleasure and abundance and being able to share these messages across the magazine-scape has been incredible.
Pauline Ryeland
Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer® works as an Intimacy, Sex, Libido & Relationship Coach & Educator.
Pauline works with individuals and/or couples around challenges they may be experiencing with intimacy, sex, relationships and everything in between.
Pauline specializes as a libido coach for men and women as well as being an orgasm coach. Pauline works with women who’ve experienced sexual trauma and have internal pain and works with men around erectile challenges.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
Pauline’s unique point of difference is that she works with mind, body & spirit utilising the skills of a NLP Practictioner (neuro-linguistic programming) which is working on the deep sub-conscious level to bring about changes on the conscious level. This is combined with being a Certified Tantra teacher and Facilitator and a Certified Somatic Sexological Body work.
Pauline has the ability to be able to dig down below the surface of the presenting problem to the underlying core issue and then has the capacity to create an individual coaching plan to bring her clients to their desired outcomes.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
I believe there are several things that contribute to my success. People feel comfortable with me straight away which allows them to share, sometimes their deepest secrets that often they might not have shared with anyone before. I stand in a place of no judgement and all I want is to assist with what’s going on for the individual and awaken them to their full sexual potential. I also have the ability to ask the right questions to determine exactly what’s going on “behind the scenes”. I also know that my coaching brings about change, which gives growth to the clients.
Serena Haines
Serena Haines is a Halifax based Somatic Sex Educator and Pleasure and Intimacy Coach.
She has been helping with people with Sex and Intimacy Coaching through BodyWork, private
practice coaching sessions, workshops, educational events and private events since 2017.
With a background in Psychology at Memorial University of Newfoundland, Serena has also trained through the Instititute for Somatic Sex Education in BC, Canada. In 2019 Serena focused on Clinical Sexology studying through SexologyU and is also a Certified Sex Coach through The Sexology Institute of San Antonio.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
My mission is to bring awareness to the importance of Pleasure within sexual health and wellness, as much as we have an awareness around mental and physical health. “Our sex energy is our life energy and is meant to be expressed and cultivated without shame, taboo or stigma… and its a lot of fun!” I combine a sense of fun and relaxation to sensuality and sex,
helping you find your peak potential for pleasure both in and out of the bedroom.
For over a decade I has been studying the world of Human Sexuality and Somatic Sex Education. Sensuality and sex are my passion. Leading the way and smashing taboos around sexuality and pleasure, I am able to work not only with couples to integrate erotic touch and massage but also with individuals to awaken their orgasmic potential. My focus is on private
intimacy/erotic sessions with couples but I also offers public workshops on a variety of fun, sexy topics to help keep us all in what I have coined, a “sensual idle”.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that has led to my success is my ability to curate a path for clients that is all their own. Being trained in several modalities allows me to borrow from each to create a pathway to pleasure and intimacy for clients that I would not otherwise have. I have also used this knowledge to create public workshops and learning opportunities that are tangible and life changing.
Tilly Storm
Tilly Storm is Holistic Sex and Intimacy Coach and producer of The
Multiorgasmic Mama Podcast since 2017.
Her mission is to help women thrive by prioritizing their pleasure and
help them remember that pleasure is for them! If lack of confidence, low libido, or guilt and shame around your sexuality are the cause of your bedroom woes, (the hot, wild sex you never have any more, or the transition into motherhood that sucked your libido dry), you need Tilly.
She’s the worlds leading expert in helping women experience epic sex and pleasure in the bedroom and beyond.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
Tilly helps high-achieving women (especially mothers) experience epic
sex and pleasure in the bedroom and beyond. As a certified sex coach,
Tantra, and jade egg teacher, Tilly uses deep transformational tools and
techniques based in somatic experiencing, trauma resolution and ancient
tantric wisdom and Taoist practices to help women transform their blocks
to pleasure, turn on, confidence and connection, helping them step into
their fullest potential and power.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
The single most important thing that’s contributed to my success as a
coach is the embodiment of what I teach. Many therapists, counselors or
even religious leaders who advise women and couples on intimacy have
never been through the healing and integration journey themselves, which
creates a deeper embodiment of pleasure, joy, abundance, ease and grace
that people can energetically and intuitively pick up on. You can have
all the best strategies in business, but being the example matters far
more.
Paul
Paul Field is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Certified Clean Language coach and trainer and has also trained in Somatic Trauma Therapy. Paul is based in London, UK and helps women reconnect to their bodies, love and sexuality, particularly after difficult relationships or sexual and emotional trauma.
What do you do differently or how is your coaching different from others?
I see what’s uniquely wonderful about people: what they can become, free from trauma, or what families or society have imposed on them. I help women discover the freedom and beauty of their authentic selves. I work with sexuality because that’s where shame, constraints and wounds show up most intensely.
I believe deeply in my clients; it helps them believe too. That they can have desires, experience pleasure, set boundaries, experience love, and trust their own wisdom. When clients realise their unique power and start attracting better relationships and better lives, it’s the most magical thing.
What according to you has been the single most important thing that has contributed to your success as a coach?
I’ve put in years of self-development work myself, so I understand how challenging change can be. I have a Tantric spiritual practice that has taught me to be living in the moment; loving, accepting, calm and kind whatever comes up. I also have a beautiful, transformational relationship where my partner and I constantly face our challenges; striving and learning how to make our lives full of love and joy. I draw on all these, but the most important factor in my success is trusting in the wisdom of my clients and their ability to create their own change.
Erica Lemke
Erica lemke is an author. sex coach. future clinical sexologist. She believes in clients satisfaction
Dr. Stacy Friedman
Dr. Stacy got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partner(s).
Sam McAllery
From researching HIV biology, to working in a biotech start-up; science has long been a passion and forms the foundation of her work philosophy to provide medically accurate and evidence informed approaches for her clients. She provide a positive space for my clients to explore their sexual concerns.
Adeline
Adeline is a competent sexologist and works towards helping their clients to know about their feelings.
Michele Lyons
Michele’s life’s mission is to support fully expressed sexuality by providing effective coaching utilizing the arts. Michele combines her Masters’s Degree in Expressive Arts with her Sex Coaching Certification to become San Diego’s first Expressive Arts Sex Coach!
Patti Britton
Patti have been a clinical sexologist for over 4 decades and she founded the profession of sex coaching in 1993. It has been my life’s passion to assist people to find a pathway to their sexual fulfillment, to heal their sexual wounding, and to discover their full sexual potential, with an emphasis on pleasure and enhancement. She use a holistic, non-medicalizing, depathologizing, sexually-affirming approach in all of her work.
She love to help her clients by digging deep into the how’s without spending years on probing the why’s. She love her work, her clients, students and speaking her truth wherever that leads her. Right into your heart, she hope!
Marie Wagner
Marie is a certified Sex, Love and Relationship Coach. She also have 10,000 hours in somatic and energetic bodywork as a Tantrika, massage therapist and BodyTalk practitioner. She have been going down a spiritual rabbit hole since she was 20 yrs old, journeying into psychism and Christian mysticism before studying Eastern Religions while doing her Applied Social Science degree at Concordia University in Montreal, Canada.
Darshana Avila
Erotic Wholeness is about intimacy with your whole self and your whole life. That’s why she offer you a trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach to the realms of sex, intimacy and relationships.
Ashley Randall
Performance anxiety, identity, relationship and interpersonal dynamics, shame or lack of knowledge about sexual turn-ons, stress, and self-worth can wreak havoc on your ability to feel desirable, flirt, seduce, get hard, stay hard, timing and personal enjoyment. You are told that you need to fit a certain mold to be considered masculine, be in charge, skillful, and ready at any time as well as provide and caretake.
This doesn’t leave much room for you to be emotionally vulnerable which allows for a deeper understanding of yourself in connection and better sex for everyone. She recognizes the importance of creating a safe environment to navigate these difficult emotional topics and provide support to experience your emotions deeply as well as build flirting and seduction skills.
Ellen Melon
Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach and Un-Educator who works with women to overcome shame and perfectionism, so that they can build self-compassion and make courageous decisions. At the core of her work, Ellen helps clients remember their worth by deconstructing social beliefs so that they can feel permission to embrace their desires. She is trained using Somatica Institute and helps clients heal through inquiry, breathwork, and other holistic modalities.
Conclusion
There you have it, you’ve just read about the industry’s top sex coaches.
What has been your biggest takeaway from this?
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